Words

     Words trigger pictures which bring about emotions (feelings).

     I am sure that you would agree that words are powerful tools that can be used for constructive or destructive purposes.  What you may not have realized is that words, when heard or read, can trigger pictures in the minds of anyone hearing or reading those words.  In turn, these pictures can bring about positive or negative emotions that can significantly affect our attitudes, well-being or self-esteem. If you do not think that words can affect someone, stop and think about bullying.  What is the primary weapon used to bully someone...words. 

     Lately, I have been noticing the headlines used in reporting the news, in print, on TV, and on the internet.  Here are some headlines that I have seen in internet newspapers and on TV:

“White House staffers and journalists slam Correspondents’ dinner”

"Trump takes shots at Kushner, Sessions at Gridiron Club dinner"

"Trump attacks European trade partners who criticized tariff plans"

"Politicians fume over Trump's push to cut funds for Gateway project"

"Clinton blasts Trump for ignoring Russia meddling”

     Headlines that use words like “slams”, ”attacks” and “blasts” create pictures in the minds of the reader.  In turn, this may lead to negative attitudes and behavioral patterns.  The use of these words connotes acts of violence.  Is it any wonder that we see increasing acts of violence against those who may not agree with someone?  Also, the use of vile language and profanity on social media, in my opinion, contributes to the inability of our society to debate issues in a civilized manner. 

     So, be careful in your choice of words when communicating with someone in person or via social media.  You just may be contributing to the anger, discourse, and violence we see in our society.